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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
Words are important to me.
Ex-T told me that she'd never say sorry to me. That her actions should show that she was sorry. That really irked me.
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Goodness, that is very rigid and does not denote healthy behaviour.
Yes, actions tend to show what a person feels and/or where they are coming from. However, refusing to
verbally acknowledge that one (any human being, not just a T) messed up is not modeling healthy, functional, behaviour.
Her reply comes across as rather passive-aggressive and somewhat like a big 'eff you'.