Sorry I wish I had more time to reply right now, but I won't for another 8 hours or so!

J. and I have talked over Skype before and other programs both using video and audio. A lot more lately. I have met some of her friends and family that way briefly. I have had immense trouble getting my family to come and talk to her. They only did once, and my family tried to make it very brief and to the effect that they wanted us to wait till next March Break or next summer. They cited some honest and really stupid reasons as I mentioned above why we shouldn't meet yet. Basically they are looking for her to prove her loyalty.

We have talked about the future and I am trying to make sure J. could get here regardless of me, if that is what she wants, given accidents happen. The family never seems satisfied with our answers and is fearful I will run off somewhere outside the country with her if she can't get a visa.

Thanks all I have time for this second, but thank you so much.