That seems REALLY complicated, @Union678! I don't have a lot to add that BOTH jaymoq and Skeezyks haven't already wisely and WONDERFULLY said BETTER THAN I EVER COULD! I'll keep it brief. If it was possible to arrange some more videochats through Skype or some other apps it would be ideal and perhaps your parents would feel a bit more reassured. I doubt that they'll trust her completely but at least it will be something. As for the rest, it's your choice what to do or not. Whatever you do, be careful and follow jaymoq's wise and WONDERFUL advice as much as you possibly can. Meet in publuc places, don't rush her, get to know her, ecc. I'm sure you know ALL of this already so I won't insist. Like Skeezyks has already wisely and WONDERFULLY said better than I ever could, you're an adult and you can make your OWN decisions. You don't have to be reckless but allow yourself to be indipendent in this kind of thins. Either way, it's your choice what to do or not! I hope you'll ALL be able to find a compromise. You seem wise and WONDERFUL so I'm pretty hopeful for you. Wishing the best to ALL of you! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Union678, your Family, your Friends, your Girlfriend and ALL Of Your Loved Ones!