I had to reread this post because I thought maybe I am missing something. I still don’t understand the issue. You’ve been talking to this woman for 6 years and aren’t meeting her. If you don’t want to fly to phillipines then why not meet somewhere else? She travelled to 10 countries. So she can travel. Canadians only need visas to travel to few countries, otherwise just buy a ticket a meet her. 6 years long enough to save money and go meet someone. Unless she is talking and dating other people, she has ton of patience talking for 6 years to a guy who won’t come visit. What’s the deal