I think ALL of this is REALLY sweet! The only thing that I'm a bit perplexed about is the fact that you want to move with him without having ever met with him in person first. Are you sure about that? It seems like you've been videochatting a lot but I still feel like meeting face to face first would be beneficial for BOTH of you. Either way, dealing with a person on the Asperger spectrum is certainly not easy but it's not impossible either! It depends on how much effort are you BOTH willing to put into it. It seems like you're trying so GOOD for you! I'd suggest to read up a bit on Asperger so that you'll be aware of the most common symptoms. That way you'll partly know what to expect at least. Remember that every person is different like SorryShapes has already wisely and wonderfully said BETTER THAN I EVER COULD so don't take those words as a guide! Just use them as some general indications. You can also ask your Doctor for some advice if you feel like that's appropriate. He probably knows him better than any book! I hope your relationship will work out. I'm rooting for BOTH of you! KEEP FIGHTING! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH You, @Angelwngs25, your Boyfriend and ALL Of Your Loved Ones!