As the adult child of divorced parents and the parent who had three kids when I divorced their dad I'm telling to think long and hard about actually getting a divorce. My attorney told me I was right about everything I complained about to her- now I see it was her way of getting my money. Most of all- divorce is serious to the kids- grown, like I was, or still very young like my kids were. It leaves a big impact- even IF you're the one who wants it. A word to the wise...