Hello jon: Thank you for bringing your concern here to PC. I'm sorry I don't think I would be able to suggest anything as far as what to do about the situation you describe. Hopefully there will be other PC members who will have some suggestions they can share. In the meantime I noticed this is your first post. So... welcome to Psych Central.

One additional forum, here on PC, that may be of interest would be the relationships & communication forum. Here's a link:

https://psychcentralforums.com/relat...communication/

You may also wish to check out the Health Support forum:

https://psychcentralforums.com/health-support/

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.