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altonwoodsdrphil said:
Read a post here and want to tell somebody what you feel is the "solution" to their problem but don't because you feel as though it might be "politically in-correct"...

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I see some people posting here who have various different solutions for other people's problems. It seems to me you have to let them propose the solutions.

Maybe think, too, about why people need to "save" other people. I have been in that position -- and no longer am so eager to do so. I think the subject is worthy of thinking about.