Why should I ignore you? I never ignore friends if I can help it. I do wish you felt comfortable with opening up your thoughts completely though by asking the question. The answers ma uh help you feel better or provide clarity. As to the meaning of life - I think that's different for everyone .. so maybe your question has multiple answers, but no wrong answer? I agree though - ppl should be accepted as is - but we are taught from a young age, we must strive for acceptance and/or perfection. Most of society lives by that belief. I am not sure where the blame for that is - but it is certainly not on you .. so just ignore those who would judge you, bc they are judging themselves too, I can guarantee it - and their harsh judgment of you makes it seem "more acceptable" to have the harsh judgement they have about themselves.. bc they see it as "not as bad".