Wheelchair bound people still do what they can to help n it is most often truly appreciated when they do.

By failing ppl and pets though. I don't mean it as being there .. but more of a "I have a responsibility I failed at".

For instance, pets rely on you for their care.

Husband relies on you to be a support in the relationship. Yes,
it is natural to fail in small things once in awhile concerning that or need to attend to yourself at times ... but I am speaking on the "overall" type of thing.

Friends rely on you to carry through with your promises.

All of those things I have failed in - not willfully - but just bc I don't remember things or simply don't want to do it at the time or etc