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Originally Posted by nottrustin
Very possible. There is likely discussions that leads her yo sayy this and T is aware.
Part of it is that 2 weeks ago at my appointment before T went on a backapacking vacation I wanted to tell her to be safe and that I was worried something might happen but I didn't. Instead I told her to have a wonderful vacation. I spent the week she was gone somewhat afraid something would happen and she would fall.
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I understand that fear. Two vacations ago, my T said he didn't know if Wifi would be available where he was going, so my mind jumped to wildnerness. And I said I was afraid he'd be eaten by bears or something. I've said "travel safely" to him before vacations in the past, but one time he was like, "How do you even know if I'm going anywhere?" (because he won't tell me). So I think last time I just said to enjoy his time off, or something like that. I may say "safe travels" this time--it's a bit of an OCD thing with me (like the magical thinking thing).