Hang in there, @losthusband! Be proud of yourself for how you're handling the situation! I'm REALLY HAPPY that you're pursuing couple counseling as well as individual therapy. Hopefully that's helping a bit!! Just keep being supportive to her. That's ALL you can do as an husband, really. keep reminding her that you Love her like you're already WONDERUFLLY doing. Give her some space ESPECIALLY when she's feeling particularly bad. Keep fighting! I know it's hard. I'm REALLY HAPPY that you've been reaching out here as well. I hope hearing other posters' experiences helps as well! Remeber that it won't last forever and that you CAN work on ALL of this. Of course, your Wife has to put some effort into it as well but it seems like she's REALLY trying. I am TRULY, DEEPL SORRY for what you and her are going through. It is not easy at all, I know. Be proud of yourself for how you're handling ALL of this, though! I'm sure Love will conquer ALL the difficulties and struggles you're going through. Just keep hanging on, ok? Feel free to PM me ANYTIME if you wish to receive some additional Advice and Support. I'm SURE plenty of others will gladly help you as well. KEEP FIGHTING! You're important, you matter, you're worth it and you're WONDERFUL, and so is your Family! I'm sure you know that already. Please be kind to yourself and keep trying your best. That's ALL we humans can do after all. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH You, @losthusband, your Wife, your Children, your Family and ALL Of Your Loved Ones! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING LIKE YOU'RE ALREADY WONDERFULLY DOING TOGETHER WITH YOUR WIFE AND CHILDREN!