Okay so... Im 16yr old and I live in care,I have a boyfriend who is over 40 and likes me,he acts like hes a teenager and when I go out for lunch with him he always asks for cigarettes and a few times he asked could I have a few of my chips-I said No and then he sighed and said fine. We held hands and then he stopped and asked me did I play final fantasy ..he always buys a new game everytime i meet up with him. He gives me gifts and I always buy him DVDs and stuff he might like. I want to just be friends but I dont know how to say it -in a nice way