It seems complicated, @dsh2019. I'd suggest to go to a Doctor with her and consider all options and what you can do. I'm so sorry things are being so hard! I hope things will get better soon for all the parties involved and that you'll BOTH be able to find a solution and to decide where do you want to from there. Sending many safe, warm hugs to You, @dsh2019, your Baby, your Girlfriend and ALL Of Your Loved Ones!