I am not triggered by your comments, I am disagreeing with your assumptions and outlook. I don't judge women based on their weight, but you are right - I am likely to judge a woman on other physical factors such as wearing make-up, wearing high heels, etc. I suppose this feels different to me because I am not judging her for her weight, height, bodily presence - I am judging her for the patriarchal crap she is buying into. Ouch, that's harsh. I mean, I get it too, some women don't have the choice or confidence to opt out of that crap, but I still judge them. Urgh to me.