why are you dating someone over 40? if you sleep together you do realize it is statutory rape on his part? tell him to get lost and find someone his own age. he doesn't need to date 16 yr olds. and you shouldn't be going there either...find someone closer to your age with whom you have actually something in common. how did you even meet this guy?? i'm not sure what "in care" is but if it's something like a care facility you still need to be more careful.

my gut tells me he's looking for more then just fries.

be careful and do something to keep yourself safe. you deserve better.