Hello,
I'm a 30 year old male who recently got involved with a 24 year old girl that has some major issues. We have only been together since July 2nd. It started out as just a one night stand and turned into what is now a pregnant relationship. She has a past of being rape, abducted, etc and as expected, PTSD. Anyways, the first few days she was with me she claimed to feel a demonic presence over my home and hears voices. It "bothered" her so bad that she decided to kick my cabinet and broke it. I took her home after the third day of nothing but harsh criticism and mean remarks no matter what I would do. The first day here she tried to change things about me, my life, and my pets. Well fast forward a few weeks and I have "broken up" with her and made her leave about 4 times and for some odd reason she will convince me that everything is ok and I take her back.
As far as her actions go, she screams at the top of her lungs at me no matter how nice I am sometimes, and the next day will resume normal? Her eyes will become coal black and she laughs and mocks everything I say or do. Even when I'm doing something kind for her that truly came from my heart. It's very hurtful... She wont shower or get off the couch and is extremely lazy. But no matter what, its always my fault.
About 2 weeks ago she said she had a feeling she was pregnant. Sure enough she is. Well calculating her cycle, ovulation, etc, it looks like the time she got pregnant was between the 21-26 of July.. She says the baby is mine even after I said I wanted a test. She swears up and down. The problem is she left 2 of those days and 2 in which she went to her first day at a new job. Well that day she was supposed to come back home at 2pm but didn't get here until 5. She said she had a flashback of her abduction from August 2014 and froze up on interstate and kept driving and driving up an hour past our exit and turned back around. Funny thing is a guy she used to see lives up off that exit and I pressured her until she said she "passed him at the gas station" but didn't talk to him? I don't know what to think..did she have PTSD and freeze up because her past?
Last week I took her home and we were arguing but fine the next day and called each other, video chatted, etc. But when she came back to see me something told me to check her phone and I know I shouldn't have. I found a message from a guy she had over one of those nights. According to the messages they didn't have sex, but when I confronted her about it she said "when were me and you ever together anyways?!".. Sorry for the long rant but I'm confused, hurt, and now may have a child on the way. Thanks for any help given.