I'm in no doubt my T cares.
But what is meant when it's said "he/she doesn't care"?

For me if I don't really care that much about someone, I try to avoid them without being mean or rude.

But what about a T?

Not talking about Ts that are supposed to just take your money that we read about in some posts on here. I mean the average T that means no harm, is, doing their best. How would they fit into the "they don't care" catogery?

What is it exactly in words, you would want them to do that would show they care?

But what about the times someones rembering, abeit unconsciously, younger times when there was no care and they're feeling that in the moment and look for all signs that keep that phantasy alive?

To me, even if a T genuinely didn't care (then there would be multiple signs not just a single action, this is where the work comes into its own.

Instead of running from, you sit and talk and talk and talk

Because on the mind it breeds. We bring it say here and we get all sorts of replies that feed it.
. So what helps you know you're T cares, even when you're in the middle of a feeling that that don't, but somewhere in your mind you do hold onto the knowledge they do?