This is a hard one for me as it is such a unique relationship. I know my T cares. But I also don’t understand how I know that really. I remember a conversation I was having with them, and they asked what my friends thought about the situation. It was a stressful, difficult situation and one that I didn’t want my friends involved with because they care about me and it would cause undue worry when there isn’t an easy solution. I said it was easier talking to them because they don’t care - without even thinking! It wasn’t a statement I was trying to make, it was just me intuitively differentiating our relationships. They quickly and said ‘I care!’ And I apologised and said I know, but it’s different. And i guess I’m interested in hearing other people’s answers on this one because it is care, but not a care that i can understand.