I don't always know my T cares, but I've got issues clearly, hence why i'm in therapy and why I think about how he feels as often as I do...

Signs he might not care have included: him forgetting things I've told him, him not responding to a message I send in distress soon enough, his refusing to say how he feels about me, inability to fit me in for an appointment when I'd like to come in, wanting me to pay for appointments in general, being late to my appointment, ending an appointment on time that was started late, not wishing me a happy birthday or a merry Christmas, forgetting my birthday, not checking in with me.

I've felt like my T cares based on my gut mostly, with some signs he might not. (In my mind its more grey than care or not care though, I'm sure there's a range from care a lot to barely cares.) Sometimes, not always, I can be feeling like my T doesn't care and I'll call ******** on myself. Sometimes I am so confused whether it's care or not the ambivalence makes me feel crazy!