The buggy for me with Emdr T is that she is patient with me. I started going to see her strictly for EMDR. She though I was in a different place in regards to handling emotions. Aftee a few times of intense sessions and see how much I disassosicate and struggle emotionally we backed off. Then when T passed she agreed to take me on full time as a client. We have not returned to EMDR yet. When I brought up how nervous I was about going back she agreed that she knew how painful it was for me and was very apprehensive about restarting it yet. She didnt want me to have that much pain. That was over a year ago. She has said things like someday when the time is right EMDR could help with whatever topic we are discussing. Not only what she said but the tone of voice told me she cares about my well being.