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Originally Posted by comrademoomoo
I am not triggered by your comments, I am disagreeing with your assumptions and outlook. I don't judge women based on their weight, but you are right - I am likely to judge a woman on other physical factors such as wearing make-up, wearing high heels, etc. I suppose this feels different to me because I am not judging her for her weight, height, bodily presence - I am judging her for the patriarchal crap she is buying into. Ouch, that's harsh. I mean, I get it too, some women don't have the choice or confidence to opt out of that crap, but I still judge them. Urgh to me.
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Sorry for assuming I was triggering you and others. I was just surprised by how people picked up on the fact that I was triggered by her weight( amongst other things) as Artywilkins said.
I think it’s rather naive to think that we don’t judge others- it’s a human condition and it’s not out of malice it just comes natural. We go to a pound tiger a rescue and judge whether that dog is suitable based on the two minutes we see them.
It’s my prerogative to judge a t based on the hour that I paid them for on whether I think they can help me and I need help Edith my own impulsive eating and if I see someone who has no control over her eating I really don’t think they can help me- also based on other factors too. Judge me all you want and I don’t mean you but other posters, but I am entitled to speak my truth!