It seems like no matter what I say people pick up on how I say it. Sorry if I am not saying what you want me to say or how you want me to say it or if I am being judgemental but I am being judged and being accused of making assumptions based on the little information I gave.

I also said she left the door open, and several other things I didn’t like about our first session. Does that mean I am making assumptions about how will she be able to keep my confidentiality safe- no, it means I am making a choice based on my experience of the first session with her.