had this same problem only we werent married. i found porn on his computer and it wasnt even like it was hidden. for me its more of a porn depicts a lot of rape and domination scenes which trigger me. and i couldnt understand how something so horrible that has happened to me could turn him on. it mostly made me angry that i had lived those scenes and know how horrible it felt and he liked it. i dont think the porn in general is a big issue unless it gets taken to the extreme. sport illustrated and maxim are fine for me. but when it gets into graphic porn thats when i see it as disgusting. or if it happens constantly then its addiction just like anything else. i think if its not horribly graphic and its not constant then maybe you can work on some of the insecurities that make you feel upset that he looks at it. i know that part of the reason i felt bad was because i felt like he watched it because he doesnt like the way i look. and its been a few months and im starting to see that thats not the reason now. theres nothing wrong with liking naked women. if he didnt, thats when id be worried. but i think if he shows affection towards you and maks it known that he likes you, then you have nothing to worry about. id rather him look at naked pictures then go out and cheat on me. and he would probably look at porn even if you had sex a lot. sometimes you just like new things. i think the most important thing is that he still wants you. if you dont feel that, then youve got a problem. if you need to PM me thats cool.