Hi There is a Celebrate Recovery group in my neighborhood at the local church. Lots of attendees. They combine their activities with the local singles' group, often.

People often tell me i am a people's person. Hmmm. I don't necessarily agree. I do enjoy people. Yet, I also need my alone time.

I agree with Innerzone in that we all have different needs and we should find what is the best fit for each of us as individuals.

I am sorry you feel like women are all about the money. I disagree with you. Many are not all about the money. That is a large blanket statement. Some may be; others are not. I hope you see/learn otherwise.

Studies do suggest we are all better off having some contact with others in real life. Just how much is likely a very individualized matter.
I hope you find a balance which best serves you!