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Old Aug 24, 2019, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted by susannahsays View Post
It rubs me the wrong way because it originates in that awful book, I forget the name of it, but it's for people who experienced CSA. I take exception to the idea that saying that somebody sexually abused me is speaking MY truth. The MY part is what bothers me. There is no such thing as a "my truth." There are sometimes different perceptions and different opinions, but then the expression should be "my opinion" or "my perception," not "my truth" as if a "truth" where I was not the victim of CSA can also exist.


But again, I mostly take exception to the phrase because of its origins and to the idea that saying I was sexually abused is speaking my truth instead of speaking THE truth. Reminds me of so-called "alternative facts."


I see what you mean. I didn’t realise it was used in that context. I know it from a religious aspect but as I am not religious it doesn’t do any for me in that context either!
I like it because when everyone has their own truth, it might differ from another’s but doesn’t mean either is wrong.
When it used to question another’s version of events then I could say how it would be condescending.
Thanks for this!
susannahsays