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Originally Posted by Emily Fox Seaton
No it is more like we have decent conversations and if I try to put any boundaries on it they get offended. I feel like I have every right to define my relationship with another person and especially if I am upfront about it they should respect my boundaries... but they don't.
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I have been very stand off ish from the start and often if I go up to visit I have an excuse to leave. What I talk about is often stupidity because I want the conversation to end...
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...which does not strike me as establishing healthy boundaries. Maybe you're not being as clear as you think you are.