Several people ask this. It's the most asperger related question I get.
"How is it to have Asperger Syndrome?" I would understand if it was something that I got later in life. I was born the way I am. How on earth do I know how life with my disability is? I never had the same life without it. I have nothing to compare with. So, they can't know from just observing how it is to be me? Then how can I know what their lives are like just by observing them then compare? If it was possible, they could just compare without asking...