ok i have two younger siblings who are 4 and 2 they stress my mother out which i try to help her out wit unlike my older brother 19 who doesn't do a thing to help yet she yells at me not him when i try i can't handle work school and then all the crap she gives me my deal with her as a child was if she smoked i would and she quit and now she has started again and she knows i hate it then i try to help her with the kids but she over rides every little bit of power i have so the kids dont listen to me so i cant help her with that my dad is never around to help mum hates me i am the family outcast

i do understand that it is hard on her but i have never asked for anything more then respect from her and she can't even give me that