I hate you for going on holiday. It's your fault that I saw the other therapist and it's your fault that it has made me feel worse. It's your fault that she said there are multiple red flags in your behaviour and it's your fault that I still want to carry on seeing you. It's your fault that I miss you and it's your fault that you love me. It's your fault that I will get drunk tonight. It's not your fault that I need to organise extensive repairs on my leaking roof, but I am happy to blame you anyway. It is your fault that I hate my job and it is your fault that the weather is too hot.