You're already on the right Forum, @RainORourke! Perhaps you may want to present yourself at the New Members Forums. Please feel free to share your experience here! I am SO SORRY for what you're going through It is important to communicate with our Loved Ones I hope you'll LOVE this WONDERFUL Forum! Please meake yourself at home. Feel free to PM me anytime when in need of Advice and Support. I'm sure plenty of others will gladly help you as well! Sending many safe, warm hugs to you and your Boyfriend, @RainORourke! Please keep fighting and keep rocking as much as you possibly can like you're already wonderfully doing entirely on your own! Keep fighting and keep rocking!