Katie, i dunno - there were no boundaries (for me) in my house either. I know that "when you live under my roof you'll obey my rules" and that applied to nothing sexual (like showers) in their house. Mind, when ever my bf did come over, my dad had him work on his computer - or grounded me and still had him work on his computer.

I think both my mom and dad would have questioned me about a shower. i have no idea if it is right or not. Course, i'm in my 30s now and (sadly still rooming at home, but paying rent) mom still comes into my room without knocking. *sigh*.

You have every right to go to school where you want - hang on to your dreams!