This may be off topic, but I don't like my BIL and I don't love him and he went to jail for murdering someone. That's not why I dislike him as it happened in his youth before I even knew him, I don't like the way he treats my sister. If he treated my sister better, I probably would be wary of him, but I could probably bring myself around to liking him, if he was a good guy. But he's not. So I don't. Even though my religion tells me we are supposed to love everyone. But I'm human, and I can't. And I sometimes feel guilty for that. Then I think of how he treats my sister and grrrr.