I could see someone murdering someone else and still love them. Especially, if it's self-defense. I could also see a few other scenarios, but won't post them.

Both T and L know I have homicidal thoughts sometimes. I did with ex-T for a long time. But they know I wouldn't act on them (ex-T and H are still alive...). They already know I've never murdered anyone. It wasn't an example L brought up. I asked her "If I was a murderer...".