Things aren’t that black and white. I complain about things at work. It doesn’t mean I don’t love my job. I do. But there are always things to complain about. T thinks her last boss is better than new one, it doesn’t mean her new boss is horrible. I think my boss is far from great but she is a nice person. I think it’s unfair to assume she is unhappy just because she complained about something

Being married and having dogs and living in city center isn’t unusual or extravagant. You could look for single therapists of course, with no kids or dogs.

But you have to understand that since they work, they have income so they likely have somewhat decent ability to rent or buy a decent place. It’s just a reality.

It doesn’t mean they don’t understand problems. It’s just basic reality of people working, getting paycheck and buying stuff. It doesn’t mean they never had problems or don’t understand other people’s problems.