Thanks for the replies. I knew when I married him he didn’t do a ton of housework but it didn’t bother me that much until he was unemployed and did basically nothing around the house. That was when I became incredibly resentful. It has actually been getting a little bit better recently. I understand that you shouldn’t have a child unless both are 100 percent on board with it, but I feel like I will spend my life regretting not having a second child. I feel like I could make myself be happy with 1 if I tried hard enough but I’m just not sure how much the regret would be.

He is willing to do couples counseling but we just haven’t gotten around to it. I used to have a therapist, but moved and no longer do. I just have a psychiatrist.

I just wish life didn’t have to be so hard. I know so many people have it way harder than us but I still feel that way.