SarahSweden, again you are obsessing unnecessarily about things your T thinks or does or is, and then blame those things as reasons that T will be "unable to help you". But as this pattern repeats itself over and over in your relationship with therapist after therapist, it seems to be more apparent that the reason your Ts are unable to help you is because of your obsessive need to examine their lives and motives and actions instead of examining your own.