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Old Aug 28, 2019, 04:21 AM
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Originally Posted by SummerTime12 View Post
I mean I haven’t told him details because I think that would be inappropriate in my case... but I’ve told him before that I wanted to have sex with him (not like asking for it to happen, but that it was something I wanted but didn’t want to want).
Wow, OMG what did he say? Such courage to tell him that. I have a 20 yr old part that wants to have sex with T but I smack that part to its senses.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.