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Originally Posted by BlueMerleGirl
I am sure this all sounds kind of silly, and I know how typical it is for women to be doing more housework and being upset about it. I am fine with doing more than him but I would at least like him do some and not complain about how he does so much when he doesn’t. At least we are able to afford biweekly house cleaning now which helps a lot.
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This is a reason I won't get married. My brother is this way. IMHO he tricked a great girl into marrying him, getting pregnant, and now he is unemployed and lives a great old life. She supports them both and does all the errands. She is a single mom with two children... him being one of them. He has absolutely no embarrassment about this and I should have known as because before he did this with her.. he lived with his mom taking care of him this way.
My brother will often make his "slave" as I call her.. feel bad about ever complaining. He often will just stall and stall and stall on any chores he is supposed to do until he up and says.. nope, doesn't need to be done. I often get calls from him at 10 am just after he got up.
I think women have very little reason to marry these days except for assistance. So if a husband is not going to offer assistance, what is the point of them. If I were you I would not have anymore children and would look at get out of the relationship. Let someone else support him. I just hope my SIL doesn't do that because without a wife he probably will show up on my couch.