Well kind-of the same.. When I was a size 4 my mom would encourage me to drink herbal tea and make soup for lunch ,when we go out for a meal I always got soup/sandwich and was afaird of ordering something incase I didnt like it or could gain weight. Now after 5yrs I told my mom that im on meds she got a shock and wanted me to give her gifts when we go out.. now when I go to see her she is really shy.And she always says that I was not ill . and that made me feel suicide and even worse.being in care -she never phones me and doesnt like talking to me-I ask her if theres anything new and she has the same old story..Walk the dogs,knitting.. So for my own sake I dont talk to her anymore..till Im ready to.