I yield to Carrie's wisdom, Jess. It's been proven to me before. I agree that it would have been nice if your b/f had discussed it with you, but the decision is still his. Has this happened before?

I'm with Carrie. This could be an opportunity to expand your relationship.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Jessica}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I'm sorry you're having this difficult time.