I have to say, I thought that response was complete crap. I PM'd DocJohn and asked him to look at it, but I don't know if he has.
You absolutely can control -- to an extent -- how you feel. Let me use myself as an example: I had a really crappy day and right now I'm wallowing in it. I can choose to continue to wallow indefinitely, or I can choose to say, "yeah, today sucked, tomorrow's another day, onward and upward."
Some of your mood is biologic, to be sure, but not all of it. You always have at least somewhat of a choice.
Hope that helps.
Candy
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