COMPLETELY agree with ALL the other Wise, Wonderful posters, @princesscookie19! You deserve MUCH, MUCH better than him, and most importantly someone closer to you age! Do your parents even know about him? I don't think this is ok. Please break up. It doesn't matter if he still wants to be friends with you - he should know better. RUN!! Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, princesscookie19. Please get away from him as you can. Keep fighting and keep rocking like you're already wonderfully doing entirely on your own! Feel free to PM me anytime. Whathever you do, please do NOT go near him or any other 40-year old!