Hello Lala Land: I believe this is your second post here on PC. Welcome to Psych Central.

Here are links to 4 articles on the subject of Bipolar II , from Psych Central's archives, that (hopefully) may be of help:

What Bipolar II Disorder Really Looks & Feels Like

How Bipolar II is Different | Bipolar Laid Bare

Bipolar II: Anger, Angst & Understanding

What Helps Individuals with Bipolar II Disorder Successfully Manage Their Illness

And then here's a link to a blog, here on PC, titled: "Surviving Infidelity" plus links to 3 additional articles on the subject:

Surviving Infidelity | A blog about moving on from infidelity in your relationship

https://psychcentral.com/lib/how-to-...idelity/?all=1

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/relat...delity-part-i/

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/relat...dium=popular17

My best wishes to you both. I hope you find PC to be of benefit.