Perhaps, but the truth is, I've never enjoyed it. Because I just can't. Nothing nobody has done past or present. I just can't enjoy it. When it had happened in the past, all I've ever done was stair. Not a good feeling. It's rude in my book. I've watched enough dirty movies to know a guy isn't supposed to stare. He's supposed to I dunno... make some kind of noise or whatever. I just can't. No explanations. Just can't. I don't care about going down on a woman, mainly because it doesn't do anything for me. I never get erect. Has nothing to do with my wife. I'm just a lousy lover (my only assumption). I try to follow the steps in the dirty movies, but it's just not that simple (least for me). I don't know how long I'm supposed to be there in between her legs. I don't know how long I'm supposed to perform on her. I know the outcome. No pun intended. Just not any good at it.