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My husband and I fight and bicker constantly. We're both strong willed and opinionated people. And yes, sometimes we argue over nothing. But we always apologize, and we try hard not to be defensive around each other. We've both grown along the way. And we've learned that sometimes it's best to just let it go. All the fighting hasn't diminished how much we love each other. It's just made us more determined to make it work.
It's okay to feel better. You've forgiven each other. That's always a reason to feel better. If the fighting starting to happen more often, maybe you two should sit down and have a talk. Maybe one or both of you are frustrated about something, and it's coming out in the place where you two are most vulnerable- your relationship with each other. \
It can't hurt to try.
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As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light in the darkness of mere being.
-Carl Gustav Jung
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