Hmm I feel a bit uncomfortable with your T telling you about his counter transference. Any disclosure like that should only be given to you if it will benefit you. I'm not sure at this relatively early stage it would be helpful to you knowing that you're bringing up those feelings in your T. It sounds kind of dicey that he is sharing these feelings and I also wonder if it would be best to look at other therapists in the meantime. Not saying your T is necessarily bad, but I think any T needs to be extremely careful to avoid encouraging your transference and subsequently creating a situation that will harm you emotionally.