The final decision is up to you, @sadboihoursagain. If you don't like the idea of a poly relationship then it's best to tell him from the start and to not continue further. Just be honest and upfront to him. That's the best way to go about it in my opinion. The rest is something that can be worked on and discussed later but that aspect needs to be discussed right away. Please talk to him. Communication is a FUNDAMENTAL aspect in ALL relationships after all! Welcome to this WONDERFUL Forums by the way! PLEASE MAKE YOURSELF AT HOME AND FEEL FREE TO PM ANYTIME IF YOU NEED ADVICE AND SUPPORT! I AM SURE ALL THE OTHER WISE, WONDERFUL POSTERS GLADLY and WONDERFULLY HELP YOU OUT IF YOU JUST ASK! Feel free to contact the Admins and Moderators as well to clarify ANY DOUBTS YOU MAY BE HAVING AT THE MOMENT! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH You, @sadboihoursagain, Your Friend, Your Family, Your Friends and ALL Of Your Loved Ones! Please do keep fighting and do keep rocking as much as you possibly can like you're already WONDERFULLY DOING ALL AND ENTIRELY BY YOURSELF AND ALL AND ENTIRELY ON YOUR OWN!