Having a Trauma or suffering from PTSD is not an excuse to act abusive towards your partners and your Loved Ones. Even if ALL OF THIS was due to his PTSD, it is HIS RESPONSABILITY to work on it and not bring it on you! I'd say discuss this with him and make him understand that he has to work on his issues or the relationship can continue. Be kind and polite, but firm and decided. Be assertive and stand up for yourself as you deserve to be LOVED and RESPECTED! I COMPLETELY agree with CANDC who also gave you some WONDERFUL articles to check out and theoretical as well! Give it a look. Feel fre to PM me anytime when in need. of Advice and Support. I am SURE plenty of others will also GLADLY HELP YOU OUT AS MUCH AS THEY POSSIBLY CAN IF YOU JUST ASK FOR THEIR HELP! Sending many safe, wamr hugs to You, @pinkpeach, Your Family, Your Friends, Your Husband IF AND ONLY IF he will start to treat you with KINDNESS AND RESPECT and ALL Of Your Loved Ones! Please do keep fighting and please do keep rocking as much as you possibly can like you're already WONDERFULLY ALL AND ENTIRELY BY YOURSELF AND ALL AND ENTIRELY ON YOUR OWN! Also WELCOME TO THIS WONDERFUL FORUMS and PLEASE MAKE YOURSELF AT HOME AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN AS IT'S FULL OF SO MUCH MANY WONDERFUL PEOPLE HERE! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING!