Thank you so much for your advice! I am sorry that this also happens to you too. Hope that everything is going great with your sister and your family. I understand that it takes time to heal an emotional wound. I thought that my scenario with my brother is just a normal petty problem. I was not expected for this problem to happened. He is always positive and always takes the negative problem and turn it into something positive. Now that I think about it, I think it's because of me, my sister, and my mom and dad are used to blaming him since he is always the mischevious one in the household. I think we are taking this situation too harshly and made him super upset. I shouldn't have blamed him in the first place. Now, no one in the household is feeling happy and we have lacked communications about two weeks now. My brother is not happy, I myself am not happy, my sister is afraid to talk to him. Everything is just disconnected. I am praying hard that giving him space and time of healing can make him move on. He is about to become a sophomore in high school next week. I hope this gives him time outside of our home. I apologized for a very long post. But overall, thank you for answering my concerns and give me some advice. Once again, thank you so much.
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